不妥协的生活

Posted on by lilimarleen

今天（其实是昨天），是我的33岁生日。
我已经很久没有在自己的生日来一篇了，却觉得今天必须这么做。因为我的32岁实在是太过于超展开，以前30年拖延欠的债，在一年里全都偿还了。
养了狗，分了手，结了婚，买了房，拍到了上海车牌。我想，除非有一年我意外有了孩子，否则不会有哪一年会比得上今年波澜起伏。
去了很多地方。厦门，绍兴，日本东京，美国西海岸，大连，横跨俄罗斯大陆，深圳，香港，等待着我的还有元旦的京都之旅和春节的斯里兰卡。
物质上，倒是进步了不少。现在五千块钱的东西已经能较为轻松的购买，3000块钱的dyson吹风机也是入了，值得哦！（笑）比起价格，如今的我更看重品质和省心。所以我送给自己的礼物不是别的，是一个Macbook Air的官方电源和官方VGA转接器。就说电源吧，淘宝上一百块钱以内的比比皆是，何必去买588？莫非真的是开始装逼就根本停不下来？并不是。当我2天用坏一个88块钱的组装电源时，想想比起挑选组装电源消耗的时间，潜在的安全隐患，甚至还要冒着可能烧毁电脑的风险，588也不是不能接受的。
今年也开始用正版的Office了，我的心愿啊，是在明年的这时候能买得起正版的Photoshop，大几千块钱买一年license还是挺肉痛的，毕竟不拿它干活。希望届时，这个价格不会成为太大的负担吧。
不过比起这些五光十色的经历，我的沉淀却依然缺缺。看的书依然有限，虽然应该比前两年多了几本。下半年基本没看过电影，美剧也因为各种围追堵截越来越难以看到。精神家园仍然略显荒芜，难免心生遗憾。希望新的一年，有更多思考，写更多文章，进一步减少碎片化阅读，做真正称得上有意义的事情。
33岁最幸福的是，吃了四顿开心的饭，两次满足的吹灭了蜡烛，啊，也许我在工作上没有取得很高的成就，但，居然难得的在这个集体里感觉到有爱呢。
渐渐也意识到，如果你敷衍着生活，生活也会敷衍你。所以，什么事情都要认真对待，不能逃避，不能得过且过。还是要扎根大地，用力地努力啊。
愿自己有一个不负时光的第34年人生。

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